SUPPORT THROUGH CHANGE
Family counselling in Ottawa: co-parenting and separation
don't have to break your family.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
At Bridge for Families in Kanata, Ottawa, Lee-Anne Boucher and Katherine Parker offer family counselling and family therapy for the hard parts: co-parenting after a split, custody and legal-related tension, blended-family adjustments, and parenting kids and teens who are struggling or pulling away. Sessions flex to fit your family: parents alone, kids on their own, or everyone together.
Lee-Anne Boucher has spent 30+ years providing family counselling in Ottawa and Kanata through the hard parts: co-parenting after a split, custody and legal-related tension, blended-family adjustments, and parenting teens who are pulling away. Sessions flex to fit your family: parents alone, kids on their own, or everyone together.
For Parents
Separation and divorce affect every part of your life. You may be feeling:
For Children & Teens
Children don't always have the words for what they're feeling. You might notice:
"These are normal responses to difficult circumstances. With the right support, families can heal."
OUR APPROACH
A Circle of Care for Your Whole Family
At BFF, we support children, parents, and caregivers navigating emotional challenges, parenting concerns, anxiety, family transitions, or feeling overwhelmed.
Our circle of care approach means your family is supported by a collaborative team that works together thoughtfully and intentionally. Care feels coordinated and responsive, especially when children, parents, or multiple family members are involved.
Our approach is:
- Flexible and evidence-based: Attachment, Family Systems, Solution-Focused therapy
- Collaborative, relational, and compassionate
- Focused on emotional healing for both parents and children
- Balancing understanding with practical tools for change
TWO WORDS, ONE SERVICE
Family Counselling or Family Therapy — What's the Difference?
Families often ask whether they need family counselling or family therapy, and whether those are different things. In everyday use, the two terms mean the same service: structured sessions with a trained professional where your family works on what's straining it. Some people use "counselling" for shorter-term, practical support around a specific situation — a separation, a blended-family adjustment, a rough school year — and "therapy" for longer-term work on patterns that keep repeating. (You'll also see both spellings online, counselling and counseling; they're the same thing.)
At Bridge for Families, both live under one roof. Lee-Anne Boucher is a Registered Social Worker and Psychotherapist; Katherine Parker is a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). Whichever word you searched for, the starting point is the same: tell us what's happening in your family, and we'll shape sessions around it — short-term and practical, longer-term and deeper, or somewhere in between. And if what you need turns out to be one-on-one support rather than family work, our individual psychotherapy team can help with that too.
PARENTING ACROSS TWO HOMES
Co-Parenting Counselling for Separated and Divorced Parents
Ending a relationship doesn't end your family — it reorganizes it. Co-parenting counselling helps separated and divorced parents in Ottawa build a working partnership around their children: how you hand off between homes, how you talk to the kids about what's changing, and how you talk to each other without old hurts taking over the conversation.
Lee-Anne Boucher, our founder, has supported Ottawa families through separation and divorce for more than 30 years. In co-parenting sessions, she helps parents separate the couple relationship that ended from the parenting partnership that continues. Sessions typically work on:
- Communication that stays child-focused — including what to do when a text thread starts to spiral
- Consistent routines, expectations, and handoffs across two homes
- A shared script for hard questions, new partners, and holidays
- Making a parenting plan workable in day-to-day life (we don't provide court reports or custody assessments — see the FAQ below)
Co-parenting counselling fits parents at any stage: newly separated, years past a divorce and stuck in the same argument, or never partnered but raising children together. Parents can attend together or one at a time, depending on what the relationship can handle right now. And if you're still deciding whether to separate — or want to work on the relationship itself — couples therapy with Lee-Anne or Tom may be the better starting point.
MEET YOUR THERAPIST
Lee-Anne Boucher, Registered Social Worker and Psychotherapist
Lee-Anne Boucher is the founder of Bridge for Families and brings extensive experience in family therapy, parenting support, and walking alongside families through challenging transitions.
Her work centres on the depth required to navigate sensitive family dynamics: co-parenting after separation, supporting children through divorce, and helping parents find their footing when everything feels uncertain. As BFF's founder and clinical supervisor, Lee-Anne shaped the circle-of-care approach the whole practice now follows.
Families come to Lee-Anne when they need someone steady, experienced, and grounded in evidence-based family therapy.
Lee-Anne specializes in:
ALSO ON OUR FAMILY THERAPY TEAM
Katherine Parker, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Working alongside Lee-Anne, Katherine Parker supports individuals and families using emotion-focused, solution-focused, attachment-based, and somatic approaches. She believes therapy is a collaborative, relational process, and she works to create a space where every family member feels seen, understood, and supported.
Katherine comes to this work from a background as a teacher, so she connects naturally with kids and teens. She helps younger family members feel safe enough to express what they're carrying, put words to big emotions, and keep growing through change at home.
Families choose Katherine when they want a warm, collaborative therapist who meets parents and children where they are.
Katherine specializes in:
IN PERSON & ONLINE
Family Counselling in Kanata, Serving All of Ottawa
Our office is in Kanata, in Ottawa's west end — within easy reach of Stittsville, Barrhaven, and Nepean — and we work with families across Ottawa. When getting everyone into one car (or one room) is the hardest part, we offer secure video sessions anywhere in Ontario. Many families mix the two: parents meet online during the workweek, and everyone comes in together when schedules allow. There's no wait list, and sessions are covered by most extended healthcare plans.
Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
How does family therapy work?
Family therapy is a form of psychotherapy that helps family members improve communication, resolve conflicts, and understand each other better. At Bridge for Families, we use a circle of care approach where sessions may include parents, children, or the whole family together. We draw from Attachment Theory, Family Systems Therapy, and Solution-Focused approaches to address each family's unique needs.
How long does family therapy take?
The duration of family counselling depends on the complexity of the issues and the family's goals. Some families see meaningful improvement in 6-8 sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. You can start with a free 20-minute consultation with Katherine to see if we're the right fit, or book a first session with Lee-Anne directly — either way, we'll give you a realistic sense of timeline once we understand your situation.
Does therapy work for family conflict and separation?
Family counselling gives families navigating conflict, separation, and divorce a structured, neutral space to work on communication, lower day-to-day conflict, and support children through the transition. Our therapists work with parents on co-parenting and with children on adjusting to change. Every family is different, and sessions are shaped around yours.
At what age can children attend therapy?
We work with children of all ages, as well as teens and adults. For younger children, therapy often involves play-based and creative approaches. For teenagers, we use age-appropriate methods that respect their developing independence. We also offer sessions where parents attend alone to develop parenting strategies.
Can separated or divorced parents attend family therapy together?
Absolutely. Many separated and divorced parents attend family therapy to improve co-parenting communication, resolve ongoing conflicts, and support their children's adjustment. Sessions can be structured flexibly: sometimes with both parents, sometimes individually, and sometimes including the children.
Is family therapy covered by insurance?
Yes, our family therapy services are covered by most extended healthcare plans in Ontario, including Veterans Affairs (VAC), Blue Cross, Canada Life, and Manulife. Check your plan for coverage of psychotherapy or social work. We provide detailed receipts for insurance claims.
Can family therapy help with custody or legal-related conflict?
Family therapy is not a substitute for legal advice, and we do not provide court reports or custody assessments. What therapy can do is lower the conflict that makes custody arrangements harder to live with: building clearer communication, reducing reactivity between parents, and keeping the focus on the children's wellbeing rather than the dispute. Many Ottawa parents use sessions to make a parenting plan workable in day-to-day life, even when the legal details are still being settled.
How do you help children adjust to a blended family?
Blending two households brings real growing pains: new step-siblings, different rules in each home, loyalty conflicts, and kids who feel their place has shifted. We work with parents and children to set realistic expectations, pace the changes so no one feels rushed, and give each child room to express what they're feeling without being made the problem. The goal isn't an instant 'one happy family,' but a home where everyone feels heard and secure as relationships build over time.
We're separating but want to stay good co-parents. Where do we start?
Start with a free 20-minute consultation with Katherine, or book directly with Lee-Anne, so we can hear what's working and what's straining. From there, co-parenting sessions focus on the practical handoffs: consistent routines across two homes, how you talk to the kids about the separation, and how you talk to each other without it escalating. Many parents come in before things have boiled over — that head start gives you more room to shape the transition for your children.
What is the difference between family counselling and family therapy?
The two terms are used interchangeably in Ontario, and at Bridge for Families they refer to the same service. Some people use "family counselling" for shorter-term, practical support around a specific situation — a separation, a blended-family adjustment, a teen who's struggling — and "family therapy" for longer-term work on patterns that keep repeating. Our therapists draw on the same approaches either way (Attachment, Family Systems, and Solution-Focused), and sessions are shaped around your family's goals rather than the label. Whichever term you searched for, you're in the right place.
Do you offer co-parenting counselling in Ottawa?
Yes. Co-parenting counselling is a core part of our family counselling practice at Bridge for Families. Lee-Anne Boucher works with separated and divorced parents on the practical side of raising children across two homes: communication that stays child-focused, consistent routines and handoffs, introducing new partners, and answering kids' hard questions with one voice. Sessions are available at our Kanata office or by secure video across Ontario, and parents can attend together or separately depending on what the relationship can handle right now.
Where do you offer family counselling — do we have to come to Kanata?
Our office is in Kanata, in Ottawa's west end, within easy reach of Stittsville, Barrhaven, and Nepean. If getting everyone to one location is a barrier, we also offer secure video sessions anywhere in Ontario, and many families mix in-person and online from week to week. There's currently no wait list.
Couples Therapy
Lee-Anne also works with couples on communication, conflict, and connection.
Youth Therapy
Katherine and our team support kids and teens with anxiety, emotional regulation, and family concerns.
Somatic & Attachment Therapy
Katherine's body-based, attachment-focused work for processing stress and difficult emotions.
Women's Therapy
Support for mothers and women carrying the weight of family change, stress, and life transitions.
Take the First Step
Book directly with Lee-Anne to see how she and the BFF team can help your family.
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